Early Origins

At the age of 13, I boarded a plane with my little brother heading to visit family nine hours away in South America completely on our own. I had never felt more grown up and excited about anything in my young teenage life than I did that day, feeling as though I was a solo traveler. Unknowingly, this was the beginning of my love affair with travel.

​By age 15, I somehow convinced my parents to let me travel to Italy with my best friend and her family for the summer. They were Italian and had a summer house in Sicily.

For three months, I lived in a beautiful house with a balcony overlooking the Mediterranean Sea where many journal entries were written and even more hours of contemplation took place.

View from Messina, Sicily in Italiy
My "front yard" - Messina, Sicily - Summer 2000
Sunset Messina Sicily Italy
Sunrise in Messina, Sicily - Summer 2000

On this trip we traveled up and down the length of Italy, seeing everything from the Colosseum to the mountains of northern Milan to the canals of Venice. One day, we visited the ruins of a theater where Shakespeare used to put on plays.

As a 15 year old, this blew mind for 2 reasons:

→ I LOVE Shakespeare
→ Was it really possible that I was standing in THE very spot where such history took place?!

Realistically, history probably took place in every place we visited that summer. But what truly made me grasp that idea and shook me to my core was this small theater in ruins where I could picture actors reading some of my favorite plays aloud.

After that day something inside of me changed. it was a combination of curiosity, excitement and happiness.
If these places could bring about such intense feelings, what else could I discover?

Representing the US Abroad

During my senior year of high school, I was selected to represent the United States internationally in a choir made up of other high school students from across the nation.  Auditions were held and in the end, only 100 of us were selected.

It was a slightly stressful time to be traveling as 9/11 had just occurred but it was my mom who ultimately pushed me to take this opportunity telling me it was not only an honor, but also an incredible chance to see more of Europe than I already had.

To this day, I am so grateful for that push.

There were lots of long days spent in rehearsals, but once it was showtime – something magical always happened. The band played every note they had to play and our choir sang in perfect harmony, each note better than the last.

We performed in breathtaking cathedrals because of their incredible acoustics, in outdoor plazas and even for government officials!

It was so exciting and unlike anything else I had ever been part of before.

Zillertal Alps girls on the Hintertux Glacier in the snow
Mountains in Austria
Fountain from The Sound of Music
Austria: Where the Von Trapp family hid from the Nazi's in The Sound of Music
Memorial Site at Dachau Concentration Camp in Germany, Europe
Germany: A concentration camp/memorial we walked through

On this trip we visited some smaller, less popular cities in Germany, Austria, France, Italy and Switzerland. The best part about this was having the opportunity to get to know the locals and see parts of these countries I probably wouldn’t have seen otherwise.

Being part of a group touring Europe had some other benefits as well, the actual tours!

I have never been the type of person who takes group tours, however the activities they had lined up for us in between concerts and competitions were memorable.


Work life

In 2016, the fashion company I worked for announced they were in trouble and had no choice but to downsize. My department was one of the teams hit the hardest as only 2 members were left after a massive round of layoffs.

I, unfortunately, did not make the cut.

After almost a decade of 50-hour work weeks in a corporate office, I suddenly found myself jobless with more free time than I knew what to do with.

As sad as it was at the time, leaving the corporate world was perhaps one of the best things to ever happen to me. It gave me the time and tools needed to pursue my dream of creating my own event business, which in turn, gave me the ability to travel and fall in love with it all over again.

So in a way, it really was like one of those
everything-happens-for-a-reason occurrences
...because here we are.
Project Runway-like picture the studio producer created with our whole team

Conquering My Inner Demons

We live in a society where there is a higher level of awareness when it comes to matters of mental health than ever before, but unfortunately, that is as far as it goes. As a culture, we have all of the tools necessary to learn and to educate ourselves readily available at our fingertips, yet we still have a long way to go to cross over from awareness to actual understanding.

When dealing with matters related to mental health, what comes to the surface as awareness inevitably makes its way into becoming a trend which slowly but surely transforms itself into an excuse everyone uses and eventually is cast aside as something light, a joke.

A few years ago I was diagnosed with social anxiety. To this day it is something I can’t fully comprehend as I am a naturally outgoing person. However, being a socially anxious extrovert is actually a real thing.

An annoying, inconvenient, uncomfortable pain-in-the-ass thing. Literally a walking contradiction.

Pair that with life-long debilitating low self-esteem, eating disorders and depression: you’ve got a recipe for disaster.

Why am I telling you all this?

If you are reading this site, there is some part of you that wants to travel. If you have made it to this portion of the site and are still reading, it could be that you feel the same way or are going through similar inner struggles. 

It is possible to conquer anxieties over time. I am living proof you can have anxiety and travel on your own.
It was travel that transformed me and helped me change my life.

Losing absolutely everything I packed for my first solo expedition thousands of miles from home brought to the surface every fear in its worst possible form all at once. I had nothing to fall back on, everything I brought with me was gone and now I’d have to ask strangers for help when it is the last thing I wanted to do.

It forced me to take a deep breath, suck it up and do whatever needed to be done in order to be able to move forward. I was all alone so far from home and it was up to me to make this either the best or worst trip of my life.

The second I decided to work towards the former, everything changed.

Maybe it was that I didn’t know anyone or that because they were strangers it didn’t matter, but it was the first time in my life where I didn’t stop to inwardly obsess over my usual social anxieties. I could just be me in the simplest form and get to know people.

The more I did it – the more I was the first person to initiate a conversation or continue said conversation without over-analyzing what I said or didn’t say, the easier it got.

I had nothing, so I had nothing to lose.

Suddenly the voice that had lived in my mind the entirety of my life stopped criticizing me and trying to convince me I wasn’t good enough. I was more comfortable in my own skin than I had ever been before.

I felt peace, I felt radiant and most importantly, I felt ALIVE.

After so many years, I finally realized that this voice had always been there because I allowed it to be. And it was only through travel, through losing myself and finding inner peace, that I was able to take a deep breath and just live.

It showed me that I was stronger than I ever thought I was and more capable than I ever imagined I could be.

And it felt
bali street art
Girl up on high mountain, Mount Batur, in Bali, Indonesia
paris eiffel tower

the future

I don’t really know what will come next in this crazy adventure called life. For now, what I do know is that I want to see as much of the world as I possibly can for as long as I can.

The bucket list is a long one and I am sure many good, bad and funny stories will come out of each journey I take, which I can’t wait to write about.

There is always some matter of research that goes into each expedition I take, but never a formal plan.
No matter where I go in the world, I am confident things will work out the way they are meant to.

They always do, one way or another.


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